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How does one succeed in life?

13.06.2025 16:18

How does one succeed in life?

Making more friends is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

What's a memory from your childhood that shaped who you are today?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Procrastinates a lot.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

How can someone effectively handle a targeted individual?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Has your wife made you a cuckold?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Hangs out with loser friends.

What are some ten strong legal evidences that are needed for a divorce?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Why have Indian girls almost stopped wearing sarees?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

In your humble opinion, why does the narcissist mistake kindness for weakness in some people?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Is Twilight appropriate for a 12-year-old?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

What I need from you?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Can a bride cheat on her groom at a wedding?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Does not procrastinate.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

How do scammers communicate? Do they have a specific language or slang?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Ask yourself:

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

That's it for today.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.